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Relationships built on ideas

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As you build up strong client relationships (see our last blog) you can really show the value of your consultancy by using your influence to suggest  ideas that will make a difference to your client’s business and hopefully provide further opportunities for you to work together.

Many people make the mistake of thinking that, to be successful, their ideas must be ground breaking and designed to make major waves within the client organisation. In fact, some of the simplest ideas are often the most impressive.

The key is that, however big or small, straight forward or complex your idea might be, if it provides a solution to a real business issue then people will sit up and take notice.

Stakeholder buy-in
Of course to be able to come up with ideas that address an area of real concern within client organisations it all comes back to your understanding of their business coupled with the ‘lens’  through which they see things and the various interests of the stakeholders they have to keep in mind. However it’s not just your client you have to get buy-in from, but the myriad of people that they represent.

This is where keeping it simple really does pay.  While your client may buy into an idea straight away, don’t forget that they must then ‘sell’ it internally. If you keep things simple, clearly explaining how your suggested course of action would benefit the organisation, your client will have a much easier job in getting others on board. By trying to be too clever or over complicating an idea, you might actually be putting them off. 

If your ideas or suggestions aren’t accepted by the client or those from whom they must get buy-in, don’t lose heart. By suggesting intelligent, well thought through ideas in the first place, whether they are taken up or not, you are demonstrating your intellect and understanding of the client’s business. This can only help to strengthen the relationship and may even create opportunities later on or with  other organisations they recommend you to.

Jo Ouston
February 2012

 

A Balancing Act

high wire Leading on from last week’s blog - first in this series looking at how to get buy-in - once you have tapped in to your natural toolbox and are comfortable and confident in yourself, it’s time to begin exploring the potential for influencing clients and others.

When it comes to clients, one must remember the importance of the relationship between the heart and head. In simple terms, finding the right balance between the physicality of communication and intellectual content, so that our poise and flexibility will enable a fruitful conversation to evolve.

Sadly, it has become all too common for people to think that by investing in some NLP training to learn a few body language tricks they will give off the right signals and that clients will fall under their spell and do exactly as they suggest.

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Out with the old in with the new

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The New Year is an important time at work for many people  when there is often the need to communicate proposals for the year ahead to colleagues and clients. From sales plans to team re-structures to new business pitches, the common denominator for those driving the proposals is the hope that they will get the buy-in from their peers that they are looking for.

With this in mind it seemed timely to look at the phenomenon of ‘buy-in’ and to explore just how to get clients and colleagues on board, how to influence and inspire others, how to sell your ideas and how to overcome objections.

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Ghosts of Careers Future

Into the Future

At the start of a new year, many people are re-energised, raring to go and keen to put new career plans in to place.  However, without being ‘bah humbug’, it pays to be realistic. 

In simple terms, it becomes a trade-off between the things that you want - to satisfy your own needs, ambitions, values and personal preferences - and the capabilities you have that an employer will pay for. The trick is to sell your skills and experience into an environment where you can use them and where you want to be. 

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Ghosts of Careers Present

Here and Now

The present looms large in any consideration of what you want from your future working life. A career review has to embrace where you are now, what is going on around you and the external factors that will shape your decisions.

In our last post we looked at the ghosts of careers past and how tracking your career to date reveals not only skills and knowledge you have acquired but also personal attributes, preferences and values, and the things that matter to you.

Here we consider the ghosts of careers present - the negative factors that cause frustration, stress and discontent, which may be a spur to change, and also the important positives that may act as constraints but which are also sources of strength.

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Ghosts of Careers Past

Lengthy Process

‘Tis the season…..of career changes.  As the festive season progresses from Christmas into the New Year, many will use the break to reflect on the year just passed and to think ahead to the year to come.  Like Scrooge in A Christmas Carol, we may be visited by the ghosts of past, present and future.

In this, the first of a three-part series on careers past, present and future, we look at the ghosts of careers past.

For us, the busiest time of the year when it comes to career coaching is always the first few months of the New Year.  Refreshed by the Christmas break and full of hope and renewed ambition for the year ahead, many people are thinking come January about a change of career or direction.

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Good Intentions

Lengthy Process

So, the Government is seeking to rein in the number of employment tribunals with the introduction of ‘protected conversations’ and compulsory pre-tribunal conciliation. Not surprisingly, this has caused a backlash from the unions and other industry groups, complaining that these ‘frank and honest’ conversations – protected from being used against an employer as part of legal action – make it easier to fire people and don’t support the promised ‘back to work culture’.

In my opinion, much of the comment on these proposals puts the spotlight in the wrong place. Rather than obsessing over the new measures, the focus should be on what is going wrong within organisations. No matter what the legislation dictates or what policies an organisation has in place, avoiding ‘bad blood’ with employees isn’t down to following a set of procedures, it’s largely down to two things - the quality of recruitment and the quality of management. 

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The Built Environment and Working Relationships

Open Plan Office It seems to have become widely accepted in recent years that open plan offices are the best bet when it comes to building strong team relationships.  It is assumed that when everyone in the organisation is seated together in an open environment relationships will naturally improve through greater interaction and the removal of hierarchies.
 
In September the British Council of Offices (BCO) reported that a growing number of London based businesses were opting for open plan offices to encourage ‘staff interaction and knowledge sharing’. According to Matt Oakley, chair of the BCO research committee, this trend is a reflection that the whole point of the office and the workplace is about sharing ideas and trying to create new products and new ideas and ways of doing things ... and you don’t get that by shutting people away”.

In my opinion, you don’t get that by shoe-horning sixty people in to one big room either.

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Hitting the right note...

Hitting the right note

Over the years, through economic highs and lows, the question of how to build strong teams with good working relationships is one we’re asked by clients time and time again. In my mind, it’s not possible to apply a staid formula or model in how best to achieve this, teams are made up of people, not a group of overheads on a spread sheet. Teams involve a complex set of individual and multi-way relationships which must be allowed to develop and flourish naturally over the course of time.

Of course, in a business context time isn’t always on one’s side. However, when a last minute client pitch or presentation to the board crops up unexpectedly, teams which start from a position of mutual respect, trust and understanding usually rise to the challenge. This is because they don’t need to rely on a forced repertoire or ‘rehearsed’ performance due to the underlying strength of the relationships they have in place.

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